Monday, May 20, 2013

Where I've Been

Where have I been recently?  Everywhere, just not in front of Blogger.  There has been yard work to do, people to visit, parks to play in - everything - and it doesn't look like it's calming down anytime soon.  Next weekend is a wedding, a visit to some great-grandparents, hopefully a solid go at potty training, and that's all before the calendar changes to June.  June will see trips to the swimming pool and swimming lessons.  July is filled with fairs, backyard fun and hopefully a trip to the zoo and an Irish Music Festival (okay technically that one is in August, but it's August 2nd and I'm really excited for it).

We also had an emergency vet visit on Saturday night, but luckily we caught the problem in time (though the vet warned us another 6 hours and we would have probably had to say good-bye) and hopefully Hex will coming home tonight.  I tell you it's all excitement around here.

I normally love winter - at least I did before I had small children - but I'm rediscovering the joy of summer.  We're also plugging away at my husbands weight loss goals (pat him on the back when you see him, in one month he's lost about 10 lbs) so we've been trying to be as active as we can while it's warm.

For now I leave you oodles of garden pictures. 





{marigolds and onions}

{beans, peppers and cucumbers}




{broccoli}

{peas}




{potatoes}

{raspberries}

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Keeping Kate

When I wrote "Great Girls Your Daughter Should Know... Before Reading Twilight" I expected a little controversy.  I expected a lot of "Don't hate on Twilight" and debate about the books I'd picked - mainly because many of the books  I chose contain multiple adult situations.  I did not expect the Kate Hate.

I'm not a Shakespearean scholar, but spent a good amount of my college and post college years reading, writing about and working on Shakespearean shows so it's safe to say I'm at best a well read enthusiast.  Today I want to take a few minutes to defend my inclusion of Kate on a list of "Great Girls".

If you need to "Brush Up Your Shakespeare", I'll direct to the Wikipedia page for now, simply because I want to keep this short and simple.

Here's the thing folks, I know in today's society a work like "Shrew" doesn't really fit into our ideas of what marriage or relationships should look like.  Having "Shrew" on my lists doesn't mean I'm advocating that wives should be beaten, starved or submissive and I know from a modern point of view that is what it seems like the play is advocating - a strong woman beaten down into humble docility.  So, if that's the case why is she on the list?

The most important reason I included her on my list is that the play has no one single interpretation and it opens up these topics in the classroom giving male and female students the chance to discuss issues like submissive behavior, changing yourself for a husband/boyfriend, etc.  You can interpret the play as an antiquated piece of misogyny, a simple farce or a complex statement on expected behavior in society. 

It remains on the list because this is a list of books and plays that I would want someone to read before "tackling" Twilight, which (let's remember) is all about someone changing their behavior, social circle and appearance for the sake of "love" while in a rather abusive relationship.  If you want your daughters to look horrified at all things Edward does to Bella and the way Bella meekly accepts it (when she's not contemplating suicide) then give them Kate before hand.  Reading a work like "Shrew" and having those discussions about those themes and behaviors will only help make your point about why the Twilight relationship is so unhealthy.

So folks, that's it in a nutshell.  Kate is not going to be stricken from the list.  She remains on the list with a number of flawed characters because there is something in her story which I believe helps shine light on the faults of the Twilight Series for a young and impressionable audience.  She is on the list for a reason; case closed.

Friday, May 10, 2013

A Good Mother

 Sharing a little something from the past for Mother's Day Weekend.  Have a fabulous celebration of whatever kind of Mother you are!


Please make a check next to every item one this list that pertains to you.  At the end of the test we'll tally the results and give you a definitive answer of what kind of mother you are.

  • I am pregnant.
  • I've miscarried.
  • My children are fostered.
  • My children are adopted.
  • I want to be a mother.
  • I help with another persons child.
  • I'm the mother of one.
  • I'm the mother of many.
  • I'm the mother of multiples.
  • My children are one after the other.
  • My children are spaced out.
  • My children are young.
  • My children are older.
  • My children are breastfed.
  • My children are bottle-fed.
  • My children were delivered naturally.
  • I had a c-section.
  • I had no pain meds.
  • I did.
  • I birthed in a hospital.
  • I birthed at home.
  • I baby-carried.
  • I preferred a stroller.
  • I stay at home.
  • I work at home.
  • I work away from home.
  • My children are healthy.
  • My children are not.
  • My children wore cloth.
  • My children wore disposables.
  • I did EC.
  • I only cook from scratch.
  • My children have eaten a Kid's Meal.
  • My children excel at something.
  • My children are still figuring it out.
  • My children struggle.
  • My children have special needs.
  • My children walked early.
  • My children walked later.
  • My children talked early.
  • My children talked later.
  • My children go to public school.
  • My children go to private school.
  • I can afford to give my children everything.
  • I can't.
  • My children are always perfect.
  • My children try my patience.
  • Sometimes I need time by myself.
  • I never want to be away from my children.
  • My children watch TV.
  • My children don't.
  • My children love being outside.
  • My children don't.
  • My children were planned.
  • My children weren't.
  • My children have a traditional life.
  • My children don't.
  • I love my children.

Okay now it's time to tally up the results:


If you checked off even one item on this list you are a Good Mother.

You are a Good Mother because there is no such thing as a Perfect Mother.  Every Good Mother has their strengths and weakness; their good days and bad days.  It doesn't matter if you do things the same as your mother or differently than the next door neighbor because I believe that you're doing what you believe is best for your children and your family and that is what is important.

So this Mother's Day celebrate, the way you want to, that you're a Good Mother and take a moment to give your fellow Good Mother's a pat on the back, a little encouragement and a lot of support.  We're all in this messy, exciting and terrifying moment in our lives together and we all deserve to be told that we're Good Mothers.

And to you, my friend, who is a Good Mother and this is for you.  Please feel free to use it yourself and share it with someone who deserves to be told that they are a Good Mother.


molly makes do

Friday, May 3, 2013

7 QTs - Why Catholics Love Doctor Who

Okay, to start off with - everyone should love Doctor Who, just plan and simple.  However, I've been noticing a trend on Pinterest of some of my favorite friends and bloggers pinning things in tandem to boards about religion and the Doctor and it made me wonder if there's a correlation.  Most of these women have admitted that they don't like alien movies or sci-fi TV shows, yet love this regenerating, time traveling heroic anti-hero.  In a moment of over analysis this is what I came up with.

So today for the Quick Takes I bring you the 7 (okay 8) reasons I think Catholics love Doctor Who


1We love anything that operates outside of time and space.

2.  We love ridiculous ceremonial clothing


3.  We love social justice.
4.  We love penance and forgiveness.

5.  We love a good apostolic tradition

 and don't forget those Holy Orders


6.  We love Really Important Women

7.  We love Miracles



8.  We love Ancient, Dead Languages